'If it has to be.......it is upto me...'

There are a lot of times when you come across something randomly and tend to start thinking about it for no reason.This quote is one of those many things which really appealed to me......

I was at a dinner party at my grandmother's place in bandra and we had this major gettogether of  the whole family after a really long time.We were basically a bunch of 20 kids who when come together create minor havoc.

While everyone was having dinner and i was done with mine,I went into the kitchen to get a scoop of my favourite chocolate icecream(..yumm....i cant resist it..eva.).Eating my icecream secretly and spending some lone quality time ,I came across this quote written on a sticker in red ink on the refrigerator door.

Maybe at that point of time i really didn't think about it much but to be truthful this is something which should be thought about by everyone.

We always blame god, stars, planets,destiny or a black cat crossing your path for anything not going right in your life........but do you know whom do you forget to blame.......your own very self!

If you want something to happen your way then its upto you whether you really want it...or no.And i guess this very anonymous but extremely wise person has correctly said.......

that...
"If it has to be...it is upto me...."